Hessel Ray Roorda

I haven't updated the blog in a few weeks and honestly the only thing I could think about was my good friend Hess. I work for an attorney's office. We had 2 attorneys and I worked for Hess doing probate, real estate, wills, etc. April 12th we received a phone call that Hess passed away unexpectedly. We don't know the cause, all we know is that it is shocking and saddening. Hess was a wonderful person . He was always willing to lend a hand. Hess was involved in many things. He loved music and dance. He was a son, brother, uncle, cousin, lawyer, teacher, volunteer, advisor, friend. I can honestly say I am blessed for having known him. Everything I know in the legal field, I learned from him. We had such a great relationship. It still feels like he's on vacation. I look for him when the door opens. The whole office is reminded of him. There were tapes he dictated the week before that I am still going through. It's hard listening to his voice and not seeing him sitting in his office. Every Monday we would share our weekend happenings with each other. I've lost one of my closest friends and it's hard. It's not going to be the same without him, but I know he's happy. So I tribute this post to Hessel Ray. You're one of a kind Hess and I think of you often. I hope you're happy. As Tracy said, you're truly tapping with the stars!!!!

I've experienced death with my Grandma and Grandpa. Although that was hard, this is hard on a whole different level. Hess was like family, I saw him more than some of my own family members. I know things have to move on and we need to grieve this loss, but I won't lie, it's not easy.

Hess finalized my son's adoption and for that I am greatful.


Adoption Hearing~ June 9, 2008 (please excuse the pregnant belly :-))


Hess in New York~ December, 2008 after losing nearly 100 lbs