Wow! We were hit with sickness yet again. Monday Caleb starting coughing and my hopes of it being nothing more than that were shot by Wednesday morning when he was running a 100.6 fever. He couldn't go to daycare so he stayed with Grandma K Wednesday. Thursdays is Grandma's day to take one of the boys and luckily it was Caleb so she had him again Thursday. Grandma called me at work around 3:30 and wondered if I could get Caleb into the doctor. He was coughing/wheezing and just crying. They had no openings so I scheduled him for Friday morning.
I picked Isaac up from daycare Thursday around 5:15 and they had just gotten back from a buggy ride since it was so nice outside. Isaac was half asleep in the worker's arms and barely woke up for me to take him. She said he slept the entire time which is unusual for him. He didn't talk on the way to Grandma's and when we got there he didn't want to go see Grandma. I knew right then something was up. All he wanted was for me to hold him and to go home so I figured he was coming down with something too. I took his temp and it was 103. So Friday morning the doctor saw both boys. Isaac was a bear at the doctor. He's never been too good with doctors but this was the worst, probably because he felt so rotten. The doctor diagnosed them both with a respiratory infection. Isaac was given an antibiotic shot at the clinic and Caleb was sent home with zithromax. The boys were "ok" during the day but not themselves. Friday afternoon Isaac became very tired and all he wanted to do was sleep. I couldn't keep him awake and he was very lethargic. I took his temp around 7:00 Friday night and it shot up to 104.8. That was very scary since he was so lethargic. I called the hospital and talked to the doctor on call. I was instructed to give him a tepid bath, alternate Tylenol and Motrin every 4 hours and keep pushing fluids and if he wasn't better by Saturday morning to bring him in to test for RSV.
Isaac went to bed at 8:00 without a fuss, so then at 11:15 I woke him up and gave him some more medicine and a drink of water. He slept the rest of the night and woke up with only a 101 fever. Yesterday he managed to keep his fever below 101 and by last night he was fever free. He still needs the medicine every 4 hours though because I can tell he doesn't feel good. Poor guy.
Today I am staying home with Isaac from church but Caleb is well enough to go. I just hope by tomorrow Isaac will be on the mend and can go back to daycare. On a good note, both boys ears looked great so no infections for either of them, wohoo!!!!
Miracle Boy #1
Miracle Boy #2
Miracle Boy #3
3.21.2010
3.15.2010
We're ready for summer
I say we're ready for summer because spring at our place usually looks like a complete disaster. Right now it is a huge muddy mess and I'm justing waiting for the day when I get stuck trying to back out of the driveway. I'm not sure when the boys are going to be able to get outside, but by the looks of things it will be a while.
We're looking forward to spending some quality family time this summer and hoping to be able to take a vacation with the boys. We haven't really done much with them yet since they tend to be quite a handful, but this is the year for family time! We're planning a trip to Omaha and of course the wonderful zoo. I know the boys are going to love it!
This weekend Grandma and Grandpa K were at Village West again so we went over there yesterday and were able to go swimming with the boys, Grandpa K, Uncle Nolan, Aunt Gina and cousin Caden. The boys had their swim suits with the built in floaties but I don't think those will be used anymore. They really aren't that great when a certain child decides to lift his legs up and begins spinning under water! We'll be making a purchase of a couple puddle jumpers instead!
Isaac still has no interest in potty training but I'm not too worried yet. He'll be 2 1/2 next month. Potty training is a battle I don't feel like participating in. In my eyes he's not ready yet. He has attempted by sitting on the potty at daycare when his little buddies do, but that's as far as it's gotten. He refuses at home. Caleb however tells me when he's dirty so maybe he'll want to potty train before Isaac, hard to say for sure. I guess I could wait a little longer and just do them at the same time!
I caught a couple photos of the boys. Taking their pictures now is hard work!
Caleb~ tired boy with bad ear infection
Where did my baby go?
My smiley man!
He's looking so grown up
The boys love to ride Sam as a horse and Sam doesn't mind too much!
Daddy's turn to be a horse!
3.09.2010
Another ear re-check
Caleb went back to Dr. Springer Friday to see if his infections were gone. I was not real confident about his appointment because at daycare they had been telling me he wasn't himself. In the evenings all he wanted was his bankie and to be held which also is not like him. Last Wednesday Caleb was sitting on my lap and I asked him where his owie was. He pointed to his ear. Well we went in and I convinced Caleb that he was good he would get a sticker. He actually let Doctor look in his ears without putting up a fuss. The left ear was clear as a bell, looks good and the tube is actually still in place. The right ear was a little red but not much and it looks to be healing just fine. Dr. Springer said with the warmer weather coming we might be in the clear. We just have to monitor him and if he starts acting up again or seems irritable we'll take him back in. So for now we don't have to worry about another set of tubes. Thank goodness!!! We weren't looking forward to paying for that again this year.
Since his appointment he has seemed better so things are definitely on the mend.
Since his appointment he has seemed better so things are definitely on the mend.
3.04.2010
Imagination...
The other day I was in the laundry room putting some clothes away and Isaac came running in "Mommy Mommy". He had some big long story he had to tell me but from what I got out of it, he had something to show me. So we go back in the living room where he had been playing with his soft blocks and he exclaims "Mommy a truck, a truck". My little man was so proud of his creation and you know what, it did resemble a truck. It's amazing what little ones learn. They are little sponges and their creativity amazes me. Isaac doesn't care for his picture to be taken that often but I asked him if I could take a picture of him and his truck and he gladly obliged by saying "CHEEEESSSEEEE". Caleb insisted on building a truck too, well we have to work on that a little bit yet.
Oh Isaac Avery you are a dream come true!!!!
2.23.2010
Ear re-check
I wanted to keep on top of Caleb's ear infections to prevent the need for a 2nd set of ear tubes. February 13th I took Caleb to the Saturday clinic and the on-call doctor said that Caleb had a double ear infection. She said she couldn't tell if the left tube was in or not because of how red his ear was. So I went to our regular doctor today, Dr. Springer. I was sure that the ear infection was gone as he has been eating and acting normal. Well I was in for a surprise. He still has a double ear infection. The right tube is still laying in the canal and he thinks the left tube is out now. He's not sure because there was some wax in there but he thinks it's out. So now we're on a 10 day dose of omnicef and go back for a re-check. If the infection is still there we will have to go back to our ENT in Sioux Falls, Dr. DeSautel. I'm afraid Caleb will need another surgery this year.
When I was growing up I never heard of kids getting tubes or having many ear problems but it seems so common these days. Neither Ross or I ever had ear trouble. I know my Grandma Bronson had trouble with her ears most of her life. I hope he's not inheriting that trait. I know once he gets a little older his ears will drain better, but for now it seems he will need a 2nd set unless a miracle happens and the medication works. He was only 9 months old when he had the 1st surgery so he was pretty young then. I guess we'll just see what happens and go from there.
When I was growing up I never heard of kids getting tubes or having many ear problems but it seems so common these days. Neither Ross or I ever had ear trouble. I know my Grandma Bronson had trouble with her ears most of her life. I hope he's not inheriting that trait. I know once he gets a little older his ears will drain better, but for now it seems he will need a 2nd set unless a miracle happens and the medication works. He was only 9 months old when he had the 1st surgery so he was pretty young then. I guess we'll just see what happens and go from there.
2.15.2010
Here we go again
We made it 8 months with no ear infections so I should be happy about that right? February 6th both Isaac and Caleb came down with a cold. Tuesday Caleb started running fevers and had a loss of appetite. I figured it was just part of his cold as he never gave me any indication he had an ear infection. Friday night his fever was still at 101.9 so I took him to the clinic Saturday morning. My boy has a double ear infection. I was shocked. Caleb's right ear tube is still laying in the canal and not completely out but obviously the tube cannot do it's job anymore. At our last ENT visit the left tube was still in where it should be. The doctor looked and his ear drum was so red it was hard to tell if the tube was in place or not. I'm beginning to think it's out too because there is no drainage. We haven't even hit the 1 year mark yet. So now I guess I keep track of the ear infections to see if a 2nd set is in his future. Caleb was given a shot at the doctor and is on Zithromax for 5 days. I can already tell he's feeling better.
Isaac seems to be getitng over his cold and no fevers or signs of ear infections with him so we might be in the clear with him. I hope so anyways. At his last ENT visit both tubes were in place so that's promising for him. We know the tubes have done their purpose with Isaac. His speech has improved so much. It's amazing what those tiny little things can do in the ears.
Isaac seems to be getitng over his cold and no fevers or signs of ear infections with him so we might be in the clear with him. I hope so anyways. At his last ENT visit both tubes were in place so that's promising for him. We know the tubes have done their purpose with Isaac. His speech has improved so much. It's amazing what those tiny little things can do in the ears.
2.14.2010
HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY!
I got a few pictures of the boys for Valentine's Day. I think they turned out pretty good. So what's wrong with bribing the boys with suckers for a few good pictures??? They had a great time with their suckers and I had fun taking the pictures. Next year we'll have to do something different, maybe cookies next year.
2.13.2010
What a day
Lately the boys have been behaving pretty good when I have them all day with me. Today was a different story. They were into absolutely everything and boy was I tired at the end of the day. This is pretty much how the day went after Ross left the house.
Me: Sit down with a glass of milk and check email/facebook
Isaac: Pull activity table out, climb on top to reach all books and hand them to Caleb
Me: Put all books back on shelf and put activity table back where it was
Isaac: Take truck to the kitchen, turn it on it's side, climb on and reach the cake pan sitting on the stove
Me: Take cake pan back to the kitchen where it belongs, take truck back to living room
Caleb: Take every toy out of toybox and get in, take tub of play food and dump all over the living room floor
Me: why bother picking it up
Me: put dirty clothes into washing machine
Caleb: take dirty clothes out of basket and run as fast as he can away from Mommy
Me: Gather items Caleb took and bring back to laundry room
Me: take boys upstairs to help Mommy put clothes away
Me: put jeans away in bottom drawer
Isaac: open drawer and take jeans back out
Me: put them away again and redirect said child
Me: go to Isaac's room to put clothes away
Them: take books off of bookshelf and throw them down the stairs
Me: grab boys and go downstairs, fix dinner and send boys to bed for their naps
Phew...and that was just the morning.
Me: Sit down with a glass of milk and check email/facebook
Isaac: Pull activity table out, climb on top to reach all books and hand them to Caleb
Me: Put all books back on shelf and put activity table back where it was
Isaac: Take truck to the kitchen, turn it on it's side, climb on and reach the cake pan sitting on the stove
Me: Take cake pan back to the kitchen where it belongs, take truck back to living room
Caleb: Take every toy out of toybox and get in, take tub of play food and dump all over the living room floor
Me: why bother picking it up
Me: put dirty clothes into washing machine
Caleb: take dirty clothes out of basket and run as fast as he can away from Mommy
Me: Gather items Caleb took and bring back to laundry room
Me: take boys upstairs to help Mommy put clothes away
Me: put jeans away in bottom drawer
Isaac: open drawer and take jeans back out
Me: put them away again and redirect said child
Me: go to Isaac's room to put clothes away
Them: take books off of bookshelf and throw them down the stairs
Me: grab boys and go downstairs, fix dinner and send boys to bed for their naps
Phew...and that was just the morning.
2.09.2010
Update on us
It's been a while so I figured I should share something. There's not really anything exciting going on. Time just keeps ticking on by. It's amazing how fast time flies when you have children. Some days I wish time could stand still a little longer so I could enjoy these moments with them a little longer. Before I know it they are going to be 15 years old and want nothing to do with their Mom. But for now I'll take it, I'm pretty cool in their eyes for the time being.
Isaac~ oh what to say about Little Ike. He is a charmer that's for sure. Honestly, there are times that I forget this boy is adopted. Life without this little man in our lives would be awfully boring. There was a time we were worried about Isaac's speech as he wasn't talking very much. Well he's done about a 360 and is talking in sentences. It's not always totally understandable but for the most part I can understand him. He is a social butterfly at daycare. Most mornings as we walk into daycare he opens up the door to the infant room and waves and talks to all the babies. Next he has to stop and talk to Dawn the bus driver. She says his morning talks are something she looks forward to each and every day. He's really growing and maturing. He's not a baby anymore that's for sure. I can even say that he is better behaved. I'm beginning to think the odd years will be the tough ones for us. He was worse at 1 then he is at 2. We started the 123 Magic discipline with him and now I never have to spank him and he doesn't go to time out all that often. He is still obsessed with anything farm related. He enjoys tv and Barney has become a favorite of his. Saturday mornings he gets to watch Bob the Builder and seems to enjoy that and Thomas the Train. Isaac is starting to undress himself more and more. I'm just thankful he hasn't gotten his diaper off yet. I'm sure he would if I let him but I usually get him back into his clothes before he has that chance. Isaac likes to color and do small craft projects. He loves to sing and read books. He is counting to 4 all by himself without any prompting. He is such a snuggly little guy. He loves to be held and cuddled after his naps. He is one of the funniest little boys I know.
Caleb~ this little man is getting to be more like his Mommy every day. He's quiet around new people. He talks a lot at home but out in public he is more reserved and lets his brother do all the talking. I can see this being a trend as they get older. I think Isaac will do all the talking, be the popular "class clown" so to speak and Caleb will be doing all of Isaac's homework. Oh it's fun to joke and wonder how these 2 will turn out. Caleb loves puzzles, he will do them over and over. He is not into tv and will only watch it if I'm there with him. He tends to cling to me in the evenings and just wants his Mommy. He has quite a stubborn streak and I've been told that comes from me. He can be quite the little michevious boy too.
Last weekend we went to Village West and took the boys swimming. It was a good time. Caleb had no fear of the water and went in right away. It took Isaac a little while but once he got used to it he loved it just as much. I forgot the batteries to my camera so no pictures this year of our swimming trip. Hopefully we'll get to do it again in March.
I took some Valentine Day pictures of the boys a few weeks ago and will get those uploaded soon. There's nothing like bribing them with suckers to get a few good shots.
Isaac~ oh what to say about Little Ike. He is a charmer that's for sure. Honestly, there are times that I forget this boy is adopted. Life without this little man in our lives would be awfully boring. There was a time we were worried about Isaac's speech as he wasn't talking very much. Well he's done about a 360 and is talking in sentences. It's not always totally understandable but for the most part I can understand him. He is a social butterfly at daycare. Most mornings as we walk into daycare he opens up the door to the infant room and waves and talks to all the babies. Next he has to stop and talk to Dawn the bus driver. She says his morning talks are something she looks forward to each and every day. He's really growing and maturing. He's not a baby anymore that's for sure. I can even say that he is better behaved. I'm beginning to think the odd years will be the tough ones for us. He was worse at 1 then he is at 2. We started the 123 Magic discipline with him and now I never have to spank him and he doesn't go to time out all that often. He is still obsessed with anything farm related. He enjoys tv and Barney has become a favorite of his. Saturday mornings he gets to watch Bob the Builder and seems to enjoy that and Thomas the Train. Isaac is starting to undress himself more and more. I'm just thankful he hasn't gotten his diaper off yet. I'm sure he would if I let him but I usually get him back into his clothes before he has that chance. Isaac likes to color and do small craft projects. He loves to sing and read books. He is counting to 4 all by himself without any prompting. He is such a snuggly little guy. He loves to be held and cuddled after his naps. He is one of the funniest little boys I know.
Caleb~ this little man is getting to be more like his Mommy every day. He's quiet around new people. He talks a lot at home but out in public he is more reserved and lets his brother do all the talking. I can see this being a trend as they get older. I think Isaac will do all the talking, be the popular "class clown" so to speak and Caleb will be doing all of Isaac's homework. Oh it's fun to joke and wonder how these 2 will turn out. Caleb loves puzzles, he will do them over and over. He is not into tv and will only watch it if I'm there with him. He tends to cling to me in the evenings and just wants his Mommy. He has quite a stubborn streak and I've been told that comes from me. He can be quite the little michevious boy too.
Last weekend we went to Village West and took the boys swimming. It was a good time. Caleb had no fear of the water and went in right away. It took Isaac a little while but once he got used to it he loved it just as much. I forgot the batteries to my camera so no pictures this year of our swimming trip. Hopefully we'll get to do it again in March.
I took some Valentine Day pictures of the boys a few weeks ago and will get those uploaded soon. There's nothing like bribing them with suckers to get a few good shots.
1.31.2010
Cousins are fun!
The boys and I were able to spend some time with Bjorn and Norah on Saturday while Ryan and Michelle took in some Winter game activities. It was quite fun and busy. They all play really well together but they are all so busy! Caleb is about 5 weeks older than Bjorn and they are just about the same size. Ironically Isaac and Bjorn were dressed in the same shirt on Saturday so I had to get some pictures. Getting a picture of 4 kids under the age of 4 is quite a task.
Isaac- 27 months, Caleb- 18 months, Bjorn- 17 months, Norah- 3 1/2


Good buddies

Too funny!

Buddies~Cousins
Isaac- 27 months, Caleb- 18 months, Bjorn- 17 months, Norah- 3 1/2


Good buddies

Too funny!

Buddies~Cousins
1.25.2010
Just had to share
Saturday I took a bunch of Valentine pictures of the boys. While taking a break from pictures Sammy was trying to get a lick of Caleb's sucker. I soon found them nose to nose and snapped a picture. I think it is the cutest thing ever. The boys love their dog, the feeling is pretty mutual except when Isaac thinks Sam is a horse and sits on his back and says "go horsee go".
1.20.2010
18 month update
Caleb is 18 months...what, how did that happen? He is such a little ham. He tries to do EVERYTHING Isaac does and I do mean everything. If Isaac sits at the table without a booster then Caleb must do the same. If Isaac sits at their little Toy Story table, Caleb does the same. It's so cute. Lately Isaac has been treating Caleb pretty well. It's so cute when he comes over to Caleb and kisses him on the cheek. If Caleb is naughty and in time out, Isaac tries to come to his rescue. Caleb is talking up a storm, he copies everything we say. He's already putting 2 word sentences together. He loves doing puzzles, especially farm puzzles. He loves trucks, tractors, combines, trains. He's not into movies or tv shows like Isaac is, but he does know who Barney and Elmo are.
Caleb now weighs a whopping 26 lbs 3 oz. and is 32 3/4 inches. I can't believe how fast time has flown by. I miss the newborn days, but then I remember how much I love my sleep and I'm thankful we're past that point.
Caleb now weighs a whopping 26 lbs 3 oz. and is 32 3/4 inches. I can't believe how fast time has flown by. I miss the newborn days, but then I remember how much I love my sleep and I'm thankful we're past that point.
1.14.2010
Christmas celebrations
Finally!!!!!! We finally had the chance to celebrate a few Christmas gatherings. January 1st we celebrated with Ross' parents and siblings and January 9th was with my family. This year we went to Brandon and celebrated Ross' side at Brad and Gina's house. Grandma W fell and broke her hip and has been in the hospital. We figured it was a good location being so close to Sioux Falls so we could go visit her afterwards. We had a nice meal, a good variety of soups, bread and crackers. The boys weren't the best eaters but they were also missing their nap so I didn't worry too much about it. They did surprisingly well as tired as they were. Cousin Caden kept them quite entertained. The boys got a lot of neat presents. They both got a Hawkeye stocking cap from Grandma and Grandpa K. They had already gotten their kitchen so that was their big gift from the Grandparents. They both got a White tractor from Aunt Erin and Uncle Nolan. That was a BIG hit and they love them. They also got some books, puzzles, nesting cups, and a hand me down toy guitar. After spending Christmas with the family we went and visited Grandma W in the hospital. Then we made a quick stop at McDonald's for a couple hungry boys and headed home.
Saturday, January 9th we had 2 family gatherings. My Aunt Marline and Uncle Bruce rented a big room and we celebrated there. Just about everyone was able to make it except for Aunt DeAnna, Uncle Mark, Lydia and Leah. We had a great time. The room was quite large so I brought the boys playland tent to play with and I think that was a hit. The boys behaved quite well and enjoyed running around with Bjorn, Norah and Addison. By 4:00 they were really tired and both ready for naps. Ross and I joined in on the Grab Bag again this year. I ended up with a label maker which is really nice because I intend on organizing the boys toys as soon as I can get my 9 cube shelf. Ross ended up with a mini flashlight which is great too. It seems we are in need of smaller flashlights now and then.
At 5:00 we headed to my parents. I don't think we were out of the parking lot and Caleb was asleep. Isaac was asleep before we were out of Arnolds Park. We ended up driving around for a while so that they could get a quick nap in. Then we went to my parents and celebrated there. We had a great time. The boys ended up with some nice toys and clothes. The biggest hit was their big dump trucks. Bjorn got one too, but he was quite content to play with his basketball, football and soccerball. The little kids exchanged names this year and I held the master list. We had a little bit of a mix up and poor Emily came out short handed. I felt pretty bad for her, but it was a pure mistake. We'll just have to be careful next year.
Here are some pictures from the Christmas celebrations!!!!
Uncle Nolan with his nephews...Isaac, Caleb & Caden

Isaac trying out Caden's old boots

Isaac kissing Aunt Erin for a drink of pop

Aunt Erin and her nephews...Isaac, Caleb & Caden

Caleb trying out the guitar

Caleb trying out Caden's boots

Boys trying out their new tractors

Isaac and cousin Norah

All the little kids at the Johnson Christmas~
Caleb (18 mo.), Isaac (2), Emily (8), Daryan (12), Bjorn (16 mo.)
Norah (3), Kim (13) (Colton 2 mo.) Addison (3)

Caleb (18 mo.) Bjorn (16 mo)

Johnson Family Christmas ~ (Front row) Michelle, Kim,
Colton, Emily, Daryan, Bjorn (2nd row) Ryan, Grandma J,
Grandpa J, Amber, Isaac (3rd row) Di, Dad, Mom, Norah,
Addison, Marline, Bruce, Caleb, Ross (back row) Chad,
Will, Travis & Juli

Isaac opening presents

Caleb with Grandma J
Saturday, January 9th we had 2 family gatherings. My Aunt Marline and Uncle Bruce rented a big room and we celebrated there. Just about everyone was able to make it except for Aunt DeAnna, Uncle Mark, Lydia and Leah. We had a great time. The room was quite large so I brought the boys playland tent to play with and I think that was a hit. The boys behaved quite well and enjoyed running around with Bjorn, Norah and Addison. By 4:00 they were really tired and both ready for naps. Ross and I joined in on the Grab Bag again this year. I ended up with a label maker which is really nice because I intend on organizing the boys toys as soon as I can get my 9 cube shelf. Ross ended up with a mini flashlight which is great too. It seems we are in need of smaller flashlights now and then.
At 5:00 we headed to my parents. I don't think we were out of the parking lot and Caleb was asleep. Isaac was asleep before we were out of Arnolds Park. We ended up driving around for a while so that they could get a quick nap in. Then we went to my parents and celebrated there. We had a great time. The boys ended up with some nice toys and clothes. The biggest hit was their big dump trucks. Bjorn got one too, but he was quite content to play with his basketball, football and soccerball. The little kids exchanged names this year and I held the master list. We had a little bit of a mix up and poor Emily came out short handed. I felt pretty bad for her, but it was a pure mistake. We'll just have to be careful next year.
Here are some pictures from the Christmas celebrations!!!!
Uncle Nolan with his nephews...Isaac, Caleb & Caden

Isaac trying out Caden's old boots

Isaac kissing Aunt Erin for a drink of pop

Aunt Erin and her nephews...Isaac, Caleb & Caden

Caleb trying out the guitar

Caleb trying out Caden's boots

Boys trying out their new tractors

Isaac and cousin Norah

All the little kids at the Johnson Christmas~
Caleb (18 mo.), Isaac (2), Emily (8), Daryan (12), Bjorn (16 mo.)
Norah (3), Kim (13) (Colton 2 mo.) Addison (3)

Caleb (18 mo.) Bjorn (16 mo)

Johnson Family Christmas ~ (Front row) Michelle, Kim,
Colton, Emily, Daryan, Bjorn (2nd row) Ryan, Grandma J,
Grandpa J, Amber, Isaac (3rd row) Di, Dad, Mom, Norah,
Addison, Marline, Bruce, Caleb, Ross (back row) Chad,
Will, Travis & Juli

Isaac opening presents

Caleb with Grandma J
1.05.2010
1 2 3 Magic
Ross and I have been trying to find the "perfect" way to parent/discipline Isaac. He's a very very strong willed little boy and he's 2 so it's the perfect combination for disaster. I have been quite stressed out with him, especially when it comes time to meals. I've tried a few different things, but nothing has seemed to work and I end up frustrated and upset and Isaac the same. Our good friend JoAnne told us about 1 2 3 Magic. I've been reading the book and we've been watching the video. I am completely amazed at how quickly Isaac has caught on and how much easier it has been. It's so much more enjoyable with him in the evenings.
1 2 3 Magic is a way of disciplining/parenting children ages 2-12. You allow the child time to shape up. If the child receives a 3 they are to go to "time out" or "rest". It's a way of counting them without emotion and most importantly without talking too much. I've been doing this with Isaac for about 2 weeks now and the changes have amazed me. By the time I get to 2 he usually shapes up and it's not THAT often that he has to serve time out.
I'm so thrilled with this and I intend to keep using it. I've been trying it with Caleb which is working somewhat, but he's still a little young for it yet. I don't have to put him in time out very often, but he's now 18 months old and catching onto all the tricks big brother has pulled.
This weekend we have 2 more Christmas celebrations. I'll be able to post some pictures after that. We're looking forward to spending time with family. Isaac is looking forward to seeing his cousins. I also turn 30 this weekend. I can't believe I'm ending my 20's in a few short days. I can't say I'm real excited about turning 30 but I hope that just means many more happy years to come!
That's all for now. I'll check back soon with Christmas pictures and a well-check update on Caleb.
1 2 3 Magic is a way of disciplining/parenting children ages 2-12. You allow the child time to shape up. If the child receives a 3 they are to go to "time out" or "rest". It's a way of counting them without emotion and most importantly without talking too much. I've been doing this with Isaac for about 2 weeks now and the changes have amazed me. By the time I get to 2 he usually shapes up and it's not THAT often that he has to serve time out.
I'm so thrilled with this and I intend to keep using it. I've been trying it with Caleb which is working somewhat, but he's still a little young for it yet. I don't have to put him in time out very often, but he's now 18 months old and catching onto all the tricks big brother has pulled.
This weekend we have 2 more Christmas celebrations. I'll be able to post some pictures after that. We're looking forward to spending time with family. Isaac is looking forward to seeing his cousins. I also turn 30 this weekend. I can't believe I'm ending my 20's in a few short days. I can't say I'm real excited about turning 30 but I hope that just means many more happy years to come!
That's all for now. I'll check back soon with Christmas pictures and a well-check update on Caleb.
12.27.2009
No more dreaming of a White Christmas!
I can honestly say this is my 1st Christmas in 29 years that I was not able to leave the house. We got A LOT of snow. I don't know the exact amount but it's around 20 inches. The boys, Ross and I have been stuck at home since the 23rd. We spent Christmas together, but it sure didn't feel like it. Christmas Eve service was canceled, none of our family gatherings went as planned, so it was a very quiet Christmas. The plan is to have our family gatherings in the next couple weeks. Santa did make a stop at our house and brought some cool new toys.
The boys got a big mega playhut with a ball pit inside, a couple ball bouncers, a jack in the box for each of them, a car, toys for the bath tub and a small dinosaur set. Grandma and Grandpa B and Grandma and Grandpa K had gotten the boys a kitchen. It's a good thing it was left at our place. Ross was able to put it together Christmas Eve. It's another big hit at our house.
We took the boys out in the snow Christmas Eve. They loved it even though their little cheeks were bright red. Mommy needs to invest in some snow pants though!







The boys got a big mega playhut with a ball pit inside, a couple ball bouncers, a jack in the box for each of them, a car, toys for the bath tub and a small dinosaur set. Grandma and Grandpa B and Grandma and Grandpa K had gotten the boys a kitchen. It's a good thing it was left at our place. Ross was able to put it together Christmas Eve. It's another big hit at our house.
We took the boys out in the snow Christmas Eve. They loved it even though their little cheeks were bright red. Mommy needs to invest in some snow pants though!







12.22.2009
Dear Santa...
For Christmas this year we would like you to give us warm temperatures, no wind, no ice, no snow, none of it!!!! It seems that the weather forecast is not looking very good for this holiday season. Our plans to travel to Milford to spend time with Grandma's, Grandpa's, Aunts, Uncles and Cousins may come to an abrupt stop. We hope the weather can hold off but at this point it's not looking like it.
I've been looking forward to the holiday celebrations this year as the boys are older. Last year Caleb was just a little squirt not evening sitting up yet and this year he's a independent, adorable almost 18 month old!!!!
If someone were to ask me what I really want for Christmas, the answer would be PATIENCE. I'm in dire need of it. The terrible two's have hit full force in our house.
Picture this...
Pulling into the garage at about 5:25 pm. I gather my purse, diaper bag, whatever else I need to take into the house. I open the door and grab Caleb. I then come around to the other side and open Isaac's door. I see that he's kicked his shoes off, is attempting to pull his socks off and his hat and mittens are somewhere in the van. SOOO I take Caleb in the house, set my stuff down, but I have to go shut the bathroom doors and turn lights on before I can attempt to go back into the garage to get Isaac. I get Isaac unbuckled and NOOOOO he doesn't want to be carried, but NOOOOOO he doesn't want his shoes on either. I carry him into the house kicking and yelling. He then WANTS BARNEY! I turn Barney on so I can heat up supper and low and behold it's not the right BARNEY! Do I have any clue which Barney he is referring to, nope!!!! So I let him throw his little tantrum and continue on with supper. Caleb is up and ready to eat trying to get in his booster. He waits patiently for his food to be served. I tell Mr. Isaac supper is ready. Nooooo he doesn't want supper. In most instances he has no clue what is even on his plate. He refuses to eat, literally, he screams, yells, kicks, if I do manage to get him to the table he ends up throwing it and then he wants a SNACK. Yep this is what I deal with over and over and over and over. Are the terrible two's over yet????
Okay so that was just a glimpse into my strong willed little boy's life. In reality, he's a loving, caring and good boy for the most part. Because he's so strong willed he likes to be in control and we're working on that with him. I thank God everyday for the 2 blessings he's given us. There are times I think back to before we had children and how much we prayed for a baby, how many tests, procedures and pregnancy tests we went through. It seems so unreal that not only did God bless us, he doubly blessed us. I love my sons more than anything and I wouldn't want it any other way.
So even though I tend to complain about the terrible two's, it's all part of parenting and I keep telling myself "this too shall pass".
I've been looking forward to the holiday celebrations this year as the boys are older. Last year Caleb was just a little squirt not evening sitting up yet and this year he's a independent, adorable almost 18 month old!!!!
If someone were to ask me what I really want for Christmas, the answer would be PATIENCE. I'm in dire need of it. The terrible two's have hit full force in our house.
Picture this...
Pulling into the garage at about 5:25 pm. I gather my purse, diaper bag, whatever else I need to take into the house. I open the door and grab Caleb. I then come around to the other side and open Isaac's door. I see that he's kicked his shoes off, is attempting to pull his socks off and his hat and mittens are somewhere in the van. SOOO I take Caleb in the house, set my stuff down, but I have to go shut the bathroom doors and turn lights on before I can attempt to go back into the garage to get Isaac. I get Isaac unbuckled and NOOOOO he doesn't want to be carried, but NOOOOOO he doesn't want his shoes on either. I carry him into the house kicking and yelling. He then WANTS BARNEY! I turn Barney on so I can heat up supper and low and behold it's not the right BARNEY! Do I have any clue which Barney he is referring to, nope!!!! So I let him throw his little tantrum and continue on with supper. Caleb is up and ready to eat trying to get in his booster. He waits patiently for his food to be served. I tell Mr. Isaac supper is ready. Nooooo he doesn't want supper. In most instances he has no clue what is even on his plate. He refuses to eat, literally, he screams, yells, kicks, if I do manage to get him to the table he ends up throwing it and then he wants a SNACK. Yep this is what I deal with over and over and over and over. Are the terrible two's over yet????
Okay so that was just a glimpse into my strong willed little boy's life. In reality, he's a loving, caring and good boy for the most part. Because he's so strong willed he likes to be in control and we're working on that with him. I thank God everyday for the 2 blessings he's given us. There are times I think back to before we had children and how much we prayed for a baby, how many tests, procedures and pregnancy tests we went through. It seems so unreal that not only did God bless us, he doubly blessed us. I love my sons more than anything and I wouldn't want it any other way.
So even though I tend to complain about the terrible two's, it's all part of parenting and I keep telling myself "this too shall pass".
12.17.2009
Checkup with the ENT
Well it's time for another update it appears. Both Caleb and Isaac had a checkup with Dr. DeSautel in Sioux Falls. Caleb had tubes placed in his ears in April and Isaac had his done in June. Caleb's right tube is almost out but the left tube is still in. Now we just have to watch him and see how he does through the winter. We're hoping and praying for no infections otherwise he may need a 2nd set of tubes. Isaac's tubes are still in place but his adenoids are on the large side. We have to keep an eye on his adenoids and they may need to be removed at some point.
Both boys seem to be feeling a little under the weather this week. Caleb has been rubbing his ear so I am really hoping it's just sinus irritation and not an infection. Isaac's voice is quite hoarse and he's not eating well so I am thinking his tonsils/adenoids may be bothering him.
It's amazing to think that Christmas is just around the corner. Next week will be a busy week for sure. We have many Christmas gatherings to attend but it will be fun too. I can't wait for the boys to get their new gifts. They are going to have a blast with all their new toys. Both the boys know who Santa is but they don't get the concept yet so we're not pushing the Santa gifts this year.
Wishing everyone a very Merry Christmas. We'll update again after the holidays with pictures!
Both boys seem to be feeling a little under the weather this week. Caleb has been rubbing his ear so I am really hoping it's just sinus irritation and not an infection. Isaac's voice is quite hoarse and he's not eating well so I am thinking his tonsils/adenoids may be bothering him.
It's amazing to think that Christmas is just around the corner. Next week will be a busy week for sure. We have many Christmas gatherings to attend but it will be fun too. I can't wait for the boys to get their new gifts. They are going to have a blast with all their new toys. Both the boys know who Santa is but they don't get the concept yet so we're not pushing the Santa gifts this year.
Wishing everyone a very Merry Christmas. We'll update again after the holidays with pictures!
11.23.2009
Making this blog private!
Hello all,
I'm not sure who reads our blog anymore, but those of you that are still interested in keeping up with our family, please leave a comment or feel free to contact me via email or facebook. I've had quite a few spamming comments lately so I feel it's time to make this blog private. I intend to set it up with a password so that you are still able to access it.
I'll probably make the switch the beginning of January to allow people enough time to send me a message letting me know they want to keep up with the blog!!!
Thanks for understanding!!!! Can't wait to hear from all of you.
~Amber
I'm not sure who reads our blog anymore, but those of you that are still interested in keeping up with our family, please leave a comment or feel free to contact me via email or facebook. I've had quite a few spamming comments lately so I feel it's time to make this blog private. I intend to set it up with a password so that you are still able to access it.
I'll probably make the switch the beginning of January to allow people enough time to send me a message letting me know they want to keep up with the blog!!!
Thanks for understanding!!!! Can't wait to hear from all of you.
~Amber
11.18.2009
Can Daddy's be trusted?
I thought I'd share a little story with you from a couple weeks ago. As most of you know Ross has been in the field trying to get the combining done. Well because I've been the sole caregiver of the boys he decided to let me sleep in on a Saturday morning. It sure didn't go as planned. First Ross got up with Caleb around 6:00. Then around 7:00 Isaac was awake. It took Ross 10-15 minutes for Ross to finally come get Isaac after I'm wide awake from listening to him fuss on the monitor (remember I'm supposed to be sleeping). It wasn't 10 minutes later and I hear what sounds like a herd of elephants coming up the stairs and running going on. The boys were running in and out of bedrooms doing who knows what. Pretty soon I hear Ross coming up the stairs and he rounds them up and takes them back down as I hear him say "Mommy is sleeping", really, who could sleep through that. Okay so it's nearing 7:30 and I'm just about ready to drift off to sleep when I hear laughter, yelling, every noise imaginable coming from downstairs. That's it, sleep time is over, might as well get up.
Soooo, I head downstairs and Ross is doing what he does best, surfing the Internet looking at tractors and talking about farming. I asking Ross where the boys were. His response... "I don't know, aren't they in the other room playing". Nope nothing to be seen. So I look down the hall and see my bathroom door is closed and the light is on and it is very quiet. I never like those 3 statements together; door closed, light on, quiet. I was right. So I open the door and here the boys are slipping and sliding all over the bathroom floor. It appears that one of them got a hold of my 36 oz. bottle of liquid soap I had used the night before and left sitting on the tub. They dumped it all over the floor in the tub, on the counters, everywhere. They were still in their footed pj's so lets just say it was a sight to be seen. Oh but Ross' response when I am oh so happy about cleaning the bathroom at 8:00 am, "it's just soap". Yeah uh huh just soap!
So me being angry at Ross didn't last long because the look on the boys face was priceless!!! Just another story to prove that Mommy's are never off duty!
Soooo, I head downstairs and Ross is doing what he does best, surfing the Internet looking at tractors and talking about farming. I asking Ross where the boys were. His response... "I don't know, aren't they in the other room playing". Nope nothing to be seen. So I look down the hall and see my bathroom door is closed and the light is on and it is very quiet. I never like those 3 statements together; door closed, light on, quiet. I was right. So I open the door and here the boys are slipping and sliding all over the bathroom floor. It appears that one of them got a hold of my 36 oz. bottle of liquid soap I had used the night before and left sitting on the tub. They dumped it all over the floor in the tub, on the counters, everywhere. They were still in their footed pj's so lets just say it was a sight to be seen. Oh but Ross' response when I am oh so happy about cleaning the bathroom at 8:00 am, "it's just soap". Yeah uh huh just soap!
So me being angry at Ross didn't last long because the look on the boys face was priceless!!! Just another story to prove that Mommy's are never off duty!
11.04.2009
Trick or Treat
The boys enjoyed their Halloween for the most part. I didn't take the pictures on Halloween. Isaac's were taken on his birthday and it was a nice day for pictures. Caleb's was taken when he was just coming down with H1N1 so he wasn't feeling 100% but at least they turned out cute. We went to Milford to see my parents and took the boys to about 7 houses. Many of my parents friends haven't seen the boys in quite a long time so I thought it was the perfect opportunity. It wasn't too cold out either which was nice. Isaac caught on real fast that if he held his bucket out he got a prize. We tried to get him to say "trick or treat" but it always ended up with him just saying "treat" at the door. Go figure.
Here's the cutest little Elmo and puppy dog I've ever seen.




Here's the cutest little Elmo and puppy dog I've ever seen.




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